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Peter Lownds's avatar

Distillation of experience

Is 'seeing in a rear-ience'

Sharing what life has taught

You with a friend who fortune

Brought you and whose artful

Meshugaas accompanied by

Garlic, greens and olio de oliva

Quatrocciocci is so tasty and

The jazz so sweet it knocks

you off your feet reminding you

You're over eighty and that things

which used to seem so weighty

are now dissolved by a good

Night's rest and by nine-thirty

you've passed the test...

Feldsher's avatar

Oy, Tommy. This again?

Kate Delhagen's avatar

And … Dance to the music.

Márcia Camará's avatar

"I grow old ... I grow old ...

I shall wear the bottoms of my trousers rolled."

When repetition meets novelty new meanings happen, even love.

Renee Missel's avatar

This hit home as most of my friends repeat themselves endlessly and I get frustrated to hear the same story two days in a row. Sometimes twice in one day. You are using a lens of compassion that i will try to use. Thank you.

Tommy Swerdlow's avatar

it's a challenge

Isa's avatar

That’s great and damn true..

Anna Schott's avatar

I have a person who does this with all my stories he's already heard. I tell myself, maybe he actually doesn't remember! But actually he just being nice AF

Tommy Swerdlow's avatar

You're easy to be nice AF too

Eric Trules's avatar

True dat!

Rona Maynard's avatar

I needed this helpful and heart-expanding metaphor. Many people not in the grip of dementia try my patience now and then with their greatest hits. In return, they nod along with mine.

tamara pullman's avatar

That is so good Tommy~I hope my kids like my music…

Tommy Swerdlow's avatar

Thank you sister Pullman

Jimmy's avatar

Great metaphor Tommy. In her last years, my mother got to repeating so much it was like a record needle skipping on some scratched vinyl. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the benefit of your soulful insight. It drove me crazy.

Tommy Swerdlow's avatar

Always good to hear from Zweig

JoshuaNearly's avatar

May the circle be unbroken…

JoshuaNearly's avatar

Yup… hope to have a song for you in a couple weeks.

Gloria's avatar

Profound. Thanks.

Tommy Swerdlow's avatar

You're welcome Gloria

Pattie Lee Pierce's avatar

Genius love this

Tommy Swerdlow's avatar

Thanks Pattie Lee

Diana Battle's avatar

"Life is poetry" my favorite line in this insightful blog. Thanks for the reminder.

Margot Goldberg's avatar

Thank You for this perspective on repetitive stories. A game changer. Truly warmed my heart!!